Heyyy there peeps ^^ It’s Sundayyy and that means its times for another post :) So, today I’m going to be talking about self-harming in a relationship. Now, I know this is pretty sensitive but just hear me out. From my POV, what I hate the most when it comes to loving a boy is that, everyday your love for him grows stronger but for him its vice versa. “The worst thing a guy could possibly do to a girl is not love her with his heart while she loves him wholeheartedly.” Now that quote was inspired by Liam Payne. Whatever he said is true. Seriously, to find a girl that loves a guy with her whole heart and treats him like his the only thing in this world, you are one damn lucky guy. So why give her and your relationship up? Just because she’s not gorgeous? If you say so, then you’re wrong. Every single girl living right now is gorgeous no matter the shape. When a guy says that a girl is sexy, they’re looking at the girl’s body but when a guy says that a girl is beautiful, you’ve found the right guy. Now back to the point, when a guy cheats on a girl, do you ever know what it does to her? Well here is a little “skit” that happens when you do those things to her. She loves you with her whole heart and is commited to this relationship while behind her back you go cheat on her. Think. You broke her heart when you told her you cheated on her. She forgives you and takes you back. You cheat on her again but this time you break up with her. What if you were her first true love? What if you were the only person left in this world that makes happy? What if her life depended on you? To go through two pain at the same time hurts like fuck. There is no one else left around her. Everyone around her hates her. No one wants to be friends with her anymore. No boys want to be with her. Nothing left. The only solution for her is death. Once she feels suicidal, she will start cutting her arms, thighs, basically every part of her body. She will maybe start starving herself maybe because she thinks she is fat and she needs to lose weight when she is just perfectly fine. Not underweight or even overweight. Her mindset will change after a rough breakup. Trust me. She may even force herself to vomit out the food she has taken. When her mindset changes, everything she does, thinks, acts changes. Just because of a guy. Can you see how because of one guy, her whole life changes? He left a big scar in her life. She might even wanna hang herself just because she thinks she didn’t live up to whatever the guy wants. Well, then. You are wrong. You are a true guy if you love and accept the girl as she is. Now, do you see the effects a guy has on a girl? I just want to say to the guys out there to accept the girls as they are. You might never know what you can do to a girl. And of course to the beautiful girls out there who wants to self-harm or are self-harming, please stop. I know I might not know you personally but please stop. You are too beautiful to do this. You didn’t do anything wrong to deserve this shit. So what if a guy hurts you, huh? “Success is the best revenge.” Now that quote is by Jai Brooks. The only way to prove that guy wrong is to show them that you’ve grown stronger from the break up. “I’m not single. I’m not taken. I’m simply on reserve for the one who deserves my heart. Cause they said good things take time. <3”, just remember that quote. And here are a few more quotes.
- “Everybody wants happiness. Nobody wants pain but you can’t have a rainbow without a little rain.”
- “Don’t give up on love. Because there is always someone who
loves you. Even if it’s not the person you were hoping for.”
- “A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one.”
- “When someone walks out of your life, let them. There’s no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren’t the one that gave up.”
- “Don’t ever let a guy make you feel ugly because no matter what you are beautiful with or without him”
- Zayn Malik
- “Just because you have flaws, doesn’t mean you are not beautiful.”
- Zayn Malik
So, there you go peeps ^^ I hope you liked today’s post. And of course I hope those quotes will help you overcome your insecurities and heartbreaks. To the girls out there, you are BEAUTIFUL. Enjoy your day peeps ^^ and see yah next Sunday for a new post :)
- “Everybody wants happiness. Nobody wants pain but you can’t have a rainbow without a little rain.”
- “Don’t give up on love. Because there is always someone who
loves you. Even if it’s not the person you were hoping for.”
- “A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one.”
- “When someone walks out of your life, let them. There’s no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren’t the one that gave up.”
- “Don’t ever let a guy make you feel ugly because no matter what you are beautiful with or without him”
- Zayn Malik
- “Just because you have flaws, doesn’t mean you are not beautiful.”
- Zayn Malik
So, there you go peeps ^^ I hope you liked today’s post. And of course I hope those quotes will help you overcome your insecurities and heartbreaks. To the girls out there, you are BEAUTIFUL. Enjoy your day peeps ^^ and see yah next Sunday for a new post :)